May you always be illuminated by others and become a person who illuminates the world.
broadcast week, Zhou Lang read audio
I wonder if you have ever heard of the catfish effect.
in Norway, people like to eat sardines, but because sardines like to be clustered and lazy, it is often not easy to catch live fish.
fishermen try every means to get the sardines to the fishing port alive, which often backfire.
however, there is a fishing boat that can always catch live fish, and it is not until later that people know the secret.
it turned out that every time the captain went fishing, he would put some active catfish in the trough.
when affected, sardines accelerate their swimming, promoting the circulation of air and making them much more likely to catch live fish.
the same is true of people. What kind of circle they are close to, what kind of life they will achieve.
how important is it to walk in the world and be with positive people?
go with positive people
is the best way to maintain good health
Xunzi Quanxue wrote: "Pengsheng hemp, do not help themselves straight, white sand in nirvana, with it black."
the grass grows in the hemp field and can stand upright without support; when the white sand is mixed into the black soil, it will become as black as the soil.
it can be seen that the people around you, the environment in which you live, will greatly affect your quality of life.
when Shi Tiesheng, a famous writer, was in his 20s, he was disabled in both legs due to serious waist and leg illness. from then on, he had to live on a wheelchair.
until one day, he heard Liu Qing's sincere words:
"Why don't you write something? I think you are capable of writing something. "
after hearing this, Shi Tiesheng fell into thinking, slowly walked out of the haze, and soon began to write, recording his own exploration of the meaning of life.
later, he wrote a book "me and The Temple of Earth", which influenced countless people.
whenever Liu Qing goes to Beijing, he will visit Shi Tiesheng and encourage him to try screenplays and write novels.
in the beginning, Shi Tiesheng wrote a long script, but it was still a long way from shooting.
Liu Qing will continue to encourage him: "I think you can. In my experience, you can definitely do writing."
because of the affirmation again and again, Shi Tiesheng gained more self-confidence and rekindled hope in his life again and again.
later, Shi Tiesheng wrote in his book: "Liu Qing is the guide of my writing."
positive energy people, like a dawn in the dark, let you understand the value of life.
their positivity will help you find the direction of your life, accompany you to the larger world and see the wider world.
people with positive energy can always show people a good state of mind, even if there are many sufferings in life, they can have their own strength.
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their calmness and calmness is a valuable medicine on the way forward, giving them a little more peace of mind.
if you walk with the wise, the road is naturally wide; with the superior, you go further.
if you fly with the Phoenix, you must be a handsome bird; if you walk with a tiger and wolf, you must be a beast.
positive people are like the sun, where they shine, and negative people are like the moon. The first 15 is different.
being with positive people is the best way to keep fit.
get along with negative people
is the largest consumption
David Polly told a story in the garbage truck Rule:
on the way to the airport by taxi, our taxi was in the right lane.
suddenly, a black car rushed out of the parking space. fortunately, the taxi driver hit the brakes in time, otherwise he would have hit it.
when the taxi driver saw this, he just smiled and shook his hand, showing a friendly look.
I was confused, so I asked the driver, "Why did you just do that?" He almost crashed your car and took us to the hospital. "
the driver explained slowly:
"many people are like garbage trucks, running around with garbage, frustration and anger."
"when their garbage is full, they need to be dumped, and if you give them a chance, they will dump it on you."
"so don't accept their garbage. Truly successful people don't let garbage trucks dominate their lives."
people have to meet all kinds of people in this life.
there are always some people who complain about the injustice of fate, the unfavorable circumstances of the world, the failure of others to help, and their families.
complain, except for not blaming yourself.
negative people have dark clouds in their lives, and there is no vitality to speak of.
when my friend was ill in hospital, a patient in the next bed cried with a quilt every day.
originally her illness is very likely to be cured, but because her state of mind is too negative, her physical condition is getting worse and worse.
she usually either cries in bed or loses her temper at her family.
occasionally chat with everyone and talk about it all:
"it is better not to be cured than to spend money on suffering."
"Why everyone else is alive and well, but I am the only one who has to suffer."
after a long time, others were more or less influenced by her, and the atmosphere in the ward became heavy.
immersed in negative emotions, not onlyConsuming their own energy, but also consuming the light of others.
Su Qin has a saying that is right: you don't have to bring everyone into your life.
if you see a man floating on the sea, you try to pull him ashore, but he is unwilling to hold out his hand and just cry, then spending too much time will only put you in danger.
the rest of life is short, and it is wise to stay away from those who consume you.
Circle determines life
mentality changes life
some studies have shown that
the average of the people you most often approach is your value.
you will be who you are when you are with someone; you will have what kind of life you will have if you enter any circle.
walking with positive energy people, there are more sunny days than rainy days in life, and surprises always outweigh pain.
there are many kinds of beauty in the world, but what is missing is to find beautiful people.
Beauty can be found in a positive environment, and grievances can only be seen in negative and depressed emotions.
I like a passage from Mr. Cui Wanzhi in "Super orator":
"the world is a mirror that shines on our hearts. The world is what it is."
"choose to complain, and your heart will be filled with pain, darkness and despair."
"choose to be grateful and the world will be full of sunshine, hope and love."
being with excellent people, achieving and shining on each other is the best choice.
as the old saying goes: seek inward in the heart, outward seek in the Tao.
the so-called "heart" is to change the state of mind, give up rubbish, and learn to cross by yourself.
the so-called "Tao" is to approach the correct circle and imperceptibly change fate.
for the rest of my life, people who are close to positive energy become people with positive energy and keep warmth around them.
as Lu Sihao once mentioned:
what kind of person you are, what kind of songs you hear, what kind of words you write, what kind of people you meet.
you can hear healing songs, see warm words, write stubborn words, meet the right people, and believe the old words of faith, warmth, dream and persistence, because that's who you are.
, may you always be illuminated by others and become a person who illuminates the world.