Only by living in a real and stretched relationship can you become a human survivor.
on October 5, the Shanghai Disney Resort issued an announcement. It's sad news. On the morning of October 3, a male tourist fainted while waiting in the waiting area for the extreme Nimbus project at Disneyland. The staff at the scene immediately took first aid measures and dialed 120 to take him to the designated hospital. Unfortunately, the male tourist died during the National Day holiday because the rescue was ineffective. The killer who took the life of the male tourist was a sudden death. During the long National Day holiday, the weather in Shanghai was humid and muggy, with the highest temperature even reaching 30 ℃ +. Anyone who has been to Disney knows that during the holidays, any project at Disney has to wait in line for at least an hour or two. Not to mention the very popular extreme Nimbus project. A paradise full of people, waiting anxiously and wearily, suffocating the air, causing A dangerous sudden disease-sudden death. According to the principles of disease: No disease dies at the first onset. Before each disease becomes powerful, it sends a variety of signals to its host, either implicitly or explicitly. However, these signals are intentionally or unintentionally blocked and ignored by the host until death finally comes. The occurrence of sudden death is mainly related to cardiovascular diseases. The cardiovascular diseases that occur in young people are all related to overwork. It's about. The male tourist who died suddenly at Disney fell ill while waiting in line for the extreme Nimbus project. An insider revealed that he was still very young. He stands in line either for himself and his friends or for his family and children-creating a fast nimbus that is challenging and exciting and popular with children and young people. Like many young people around us, he was still young and spent a lot of money. He went all the way to Disneyland and stood in line for several hours. Before he could enter the dreamy fairy tale time and space, he was killed by a burst of angina. He wanted to give himself a Disney fairy tale experience, but plunged into the cold and hard floor of reality during the outbreak of the disease. He wanted to relax during the holiday, but he lost his life. His sudden death was soon submerged in the news of the National Day holiday and soon forgotten, except for the people he loved and those who loved him. But from his death, I still saw a common problem: Many of us have misunderstood the meaning of a long holiday. In fact, in recent years, with the spread of the Internet, we all know that holiday travel, most of the time is to follow the crowd, except for a "tired" word, enjoy the scenery, taste fresh and relax, it is difficult to achieve. Because there are too many people, "get in the car to sleep, get off to take a piss, take a picture of the scenic spot" has become an extravagant hope-- The traffic jam is so bad that I can't sleep. There are so many people in the toilet that you have to hold your bowels and bowels. Take out your cell phone and take a picture, only to find that the person standing in position C is always a stranger passing by. If you travel during a long holiday, you will spend money on suffering. Why do we still want to go to scenic spots, visit gardens and crowded places when we know the truth? In addition to the herd mentality, there is also a very secret and imperceptible compensation mentality. Many of us are busy workers. It is not easy to have a long holiday, we are always afraid to waste the seven-day holiday. In order not to waste a long holiday and live up to our families, we will urge ourselves to live it with a sense of ritual. In order to satisfy this sense of ritual, we can't help but set goals for ourselves and our families: For example, what to do today, what to do tomorrow, where to play the day after tomorrow. In order to achieve these goals, we can't help but be attracted to places with a large number of people, such as shopping malls, scenic spots and playgrounds. And the induced propaganda of the Internet and television will make us repeat the same mistakes again and again, targeting those places with the most famous and most people. In this way, every long holiday, we will fall into this endless cycle: Looking forward to the holiday, thinking about relaxing →, afraid of wasting the holiday, trying to create a sense of ritual for the family. Under the temptation of the goal, → could not help but go to the most crowded place. The → goal was achieved, and the person was exhausted, and did not achieve the original intention of relaxation and rest. If you look carefully, you will find that almost every long holiday every year, 90% of people repeat this endless cycle. Why are we in this endless cycle? We misunderstood "companionship" and "meaningful". Many people, especially parents, because they are very busy at work, once they are free, they always want to do something different from their children, so as to prove that they "accompany" their children and make their lives "meaningful". Of course this wish is good. But the other side of the coin is that when we fall into such "companionship" and "meaningful", our original intention is what we have to do in order to achieve "companionship" and "meaningful", rather than living in meaningful companionship itself. Therefore, those famous scenic spots, those huge parks, those expensive tickets, those legendary delicacies that are famous and actually very bad, have become the proof that we "accompany" our children and make our holidays "meaningful". To make us feel at ease. In the midst of fatigue and anxiety, we do not give children effective companionship and abundant energy to nourish them, nor do we really feel this meaningful from the depths of our souls. As a result, spending money, effort, tiredness, and even exasperation in all kinds of accidents and risks are meaningless and unable to really accompany the child. In fact, the things that are really meaningful in life seem to be meaningless and not grand and joyful. It is not the deliberate construction of a node, but nourishes all things silently waiting every day. It is the companionship of one day and one night, building up our irreplaceable feelings. It is the warmth of a meal that makes the mediocre days meaningful. Family sitting idle, the lights are amiable, is the best companionship and meaning. We do it for the so-called "goal" Always sacrifice your feelings. There is a line in "the Wonder of the mind": Have an aim in life, but we don't live for it. This sentence is a great inspiration to me. I even think that the biggest hidden wound of our generation is to live in all kinds ofSo much so that I forget life itself. When we go to work, we have to face all kinds of assessments and tasks. When we go home, we need a loan for a house and a car. When we get married, we should have the quantification of family background, salary and education. When we have children, we need school districts, schools, grades and rankings. Even if we celebrate a festival, we have to post pictures of tourist attractions and moments of hotels and restaurants. We live in all kinds of numbers and layers, busy and tired, forget the pain and cries of our bodies, and lose real relationships and links. We live a seemingly glamorous life, and our bodies and minds are extremely heavy and fragile. It was not until others sounded the alarm with death and lessons that we were surprised to find: We live in our goals, lose our lives, and pretend to live better. Father Jung has a saying: Those who look out are dreaming, and those who explore inward are the most sober. To look out is to live in goals and evaluations; to explore inward is to live in reality and feelings. Whether during holidays or daily, we all get rid of the kidnapping of our targets and live in the winter and summer of our own time. We're in an endless cycle. Lost an honest way of life The process of human growth is actually a process of getting out of the "dead cycle" of the past. Get out of the dead cycle of "I am not good" in the original family, and out of the dead cycle of "I am always the victim" in love. Get out of the dead cycle of "I am a good old man" in the working relationship, and out of the dead cycle of "I always collapse" in the parent-child relationship. Get out of the endless cycle of "I always ignore my feelings" in life. Including getting out of the endless cycle of "originally wanted to relax, but ended up more tired" in each long holiday. Whether it is better work, better companionship, and better way forward, we all need to give ourselves physical and spiritual batteries, full of energy. An honest way of life is actually acting according to the wishes of your body. Sleep when you are tired, eat when you are hungry, and don't lie when you love. Only by living in a real and stretched relationship can you become a human survivor. And all the survivors are not afraid of death. It is precisely because I am afraid of death that I try my best to live healthily and self-disciplined until now, to love soberly and gently, and to embrace myself and truth in every moment. You are your own greatest meaning. So please spend more time with the tired yourself. I would like to dedicate this article to the friends who return from each holiday.
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