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Zhihu has a heart-piercing question: How cruel can a man be to a woman he doesn't love? A high praise respondent said: "A man has a very strange characteristic. If he doesn't like you, no matter how good you look, it will be futile in his eyes." Yes, when a man no longer loves you, everything about you has no meaning to him, how can it be important. Because you can not wait for a reply to cry red eyes, in his eyes, but hypocritical; you pay wholeheartedly, in his view, may just be wishful thinking. You may think that the man who does this is cruel, but the real cruelty is the truth reflected behind these things: his disregard, carelessness and unlove for you. Ignore: the message can no longer be read back I saw a video on the Internet: A boy was taking a bath when the girl suddenly called. The girl said, "I quarreled with him again. Why do boys always have a reason not to answer the phone or return messages?" The boy replied, "maybe you're busy?" The girl asked, "what are you doing now?" The boy was speechless. The story coincides with the following sentence: "Wechat reply is a lie detector for relationship. What you don't have time and you are busy at work are just excuses." make a pointed comment. A man who really loves you will value every piece of your news, because he is afraid that you need it, and he wants to be the one who is there all the time. On the other hand, a man who does not love you, even if he is on holiday, lying in bed playing games all day, you find him, he will always say that there is no time, and the message is always: read, do not reply. "the man who loves you will come back in a second, and the man who doesn't love you is reincarnation." this sentence is said thoroughly. Therefore, do not believe that there is no time, I am very busy, the truth behind these platitudes is that I don't care about you and ignore you. Remember, you can never call back the man who doesn't love you, just like no one can wake up a person pretending to be asleep. Careless: ambiguous do not talk about feelings Some people, when they first met, they said sweet words, but when they were familiar, they began to treat you hot and cold. He constantly challenges your bottom line of patience, gives you hope, and disappoints you countless times. In fact, these erratic behaviors are already reminding you that he is not sincere to you, he is just playing ambiguous with you. I read a story about a girl named Xie. When I met a handsome guy online, two people became acquainted with each other. The boy's birthday, Xi Xi carefully prepared a present for him, he did not refuse, gladly accepted, asked him to dinner, but also readily agreed. After dinner, the two watched movies together, just like a couple. Xi Xi asked the boy, "shall I be your girlfriend?" The boy instantly changed his face and said coldly: "I just broke up with my ex-girlfriend, and I'm not ready to start a new relationship yet. Let's take a look at it later." After a year, the two often took to the streets hand in hand and lived together. One day, Xi Wechat asked the boy when he could go home with her to see his parents. Unexpectedly, the boy "disappeared" from then on. Send a message again a few days later, found that the other party is no longer a good friend, Xi Xi has been deleted by the other party. This story tells us: Ambiguous feelings are like playing a game, do not pay the wrong heart, otherwise once pierced, it will be worse than strangers. Because this is not true love at all, being with you is just to relieve the emptiness in your heart, so sometimes I will be gentle and considerate to you, and sometimes I will treat you as a stranger. If you mistook ambiguity for true love, you can only get a chicken-and-egg beating in the end, the loss outweighs the gain. As the saying goes: unintentional people, why sad; people without tears, why tears; ruthless people, why emotional. Remember, love is always an one-way street, people who love you will not look around. No love: get along irresponsibly There is a movie called "Happy New year, Dear". Xiaobai is a young woman in her thirties, Beijing drifters. After dating my boyfriend for more than three years, I received a Wechat breakup from my boyfriend one day, and I haven't heard from her since then. After a chance encounter in the restaurant, there is a girl next to her boyfriend, the two are intimate and affectionate. Xiaobai was surprised and asked who it was. The boyfriend calmly replied, "this is my girlfriend and my fiancee." Xiaobai asked: aren't you an unmarried man? When I go out to dinner with you, don't you reject showing love in public? Boyfriend said: "people will change, we are all adults, we have broken up." Yes, people will change, how light words, years of feelings can be written off, he is now her "ex-boyfriend". I have read a sentence: "A man, a creature, can do anything for the woman he likes, but there is only one thing a man cannot do, and that is to love all the time." Real and cruel. Men often give anything to get you, but once they get it, some people will show their ugliness. When you love, you are vigorous; when you don't, you are as cold as ice. Don't be too credulous in promises, the life of the male population is often just a beautiful fairy tale, encountered reality, usually very tragic. A man without love will not change his mind because of what you give. Remember, you have no bottom line to pay, not only can not get a man's pity, but increase the abandoned chips. ▽ The writer Yishu once said: "Men are more ruthless than you think, especially when they choose to break up with you, they treat everything for a penny, and many people don't have the kindness of the past." So, in a relationship, don't worry too much about the past. It is better to go with the wind and let it go to the east and west than to give thanks to the flowers that bloom to the teacup. Only when you know how to let go in time and give yourself a clear sky, can you have a chance to meet the right person, regain your beauty, and be perfect for the rest of your life. Oh, good night.
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