A good state of mind, let people meet beautiful.
people are always envious of others in this life.
look up to other people's lives, envy their happiness and envy their success.
do not realize that those who seem to have everything going well often have two words engraved on their back: state of mind.
if you have a good state of mind, everything is good; if you have a bad state of mind, everything is hard.
as Samuel said:
"the world is like a mirror: frown at it, it frowns at you; smile at it, it looks at you with a smile."
in life, those who have a good mindset are always full of positive strength and keep a lot of good habits.
because of this, life is getting better and better, and the future is promising.
be grateful, be content and cherish blessings
as the saying goes, nine times out of ten life is not satisfactory.
but in the face of the same thing, people who can't get over it are always more painful.
they will complain because they can't get it, worry because they think too much, and resent anger because they are dissatisfied.
in other words, it is neither contented nor grateful.
little do you know that in the long river of life, only you are your own ferryman.
know how to be contented, you will find that every place has the most beautiful scenery;
learn to be grateful, and you will find that every day is the best time.
as a famous online saying goes:
"in order to find happiness, you have traveled all over the world, but you have never seen it.In fact, as long as you have a grateful and contented heart, happiness is by your side. "
I remember reading such a short story.
in ancient times, there was a man whose family was very poor. Even though he was teaching and farming, he still lived in poverty.
but every dusk, he would kneel in front of his house to burn incense, worship nine to heaven, and thank God for giving him a day of blessings.
at this time, his wife laughed at him and said, "We have vegetable porridge for three meals a day. How can we say Qingfu?"Unexpectedly, he said, "you and I were born in peace and prosperity, and there are no disasters, so we can have food and clothing, and we will not suffer from hunger and cold. Moreover, there are no patients in bed and no prisoners in prison. What is Qingfu?"
if you are content and happy in life, you will not be humiliated all your life.
if one can be grateful for everything around him, he is bound to be happy and happy for a long time.
Don't worry about it, don't worry about it.
people have as much trouble as they care about in their whole life.
most of the time, pain is found by yourself, and sadness is saved by yourself.
when the heart is small, the matter is big; when the heart is narrow, there are many worries.
in fact, many things are not so complicated, but they care too much. If they always complain, how can they talk about happiness?
someone once asked the Zen master, "is there anything you need to do to practice?"
the Zen master said, "eat when you are hungry and sleep when you are sleepy."
the man asked, "this is the case with most people. Is that what the master does?"
the Zen master replied, "it's not the same." When others should not eat well, they must think about it in every way; when they should sleep, they should not sleep peacefully, and they have to worry about it in a thousand ways. So I'm different from them. "
the words of the Zen master are to tell us that in life, if you can let go of the burden, you can be relaxed, and you can live a happy life by looking down on the gains and losses.
the so-called state of mind determines everything.
Don't worry, everything is fine.
calm down and cool breeze
as the old saying goes, "trees come from their roots, people from their hearts."
when you have a clear mind, you can be calm; when you are calm, you have to be calm.
in the final analysis, a person's life is nothing but a journey of spiritual cultivation.
keep your heart, take your time in case of trouble, look for hope from adversity, and you will be happy in the end.
as Lin Qingxuan wrote in "the most Beautiful Life is Qinghuan":
"see the world with a clear heart, live with joy, love with an ordinary heart, and remove obstacles with a soft heart."
when you are alive, your heart is like dust, and the breeze comes. Someone once told such a story.
two colleagues sitting together chatted, and one of them asked, "what's the weather forecast for tomorrow?"
the other said, "it will be the weather I like."
the man asked, "how do you know it happens to be your favorite weather?"As a result, the colleague said, "I found that the environment was not always what I wanted, so I learned to face everything I encountered happily." Therefore, I must like the weather tomorrow. "
isn't this the case in the world?
it doesn't always get what people want.
but we can't change the weather, but we can control our mood; if we can't control the environment, we can adjust our hearts
Let go of impetuosity and peace of mind.
in the final analysis, there are thousands of floating world, and you and I both need to be calm.
calm and calm, not arrogant and impatient
Yu Dan said: "one's self-confidence comes from inner calmness and calmness."
being indifferent is always the best state of mind in life.
if you are calm and calm, you will not be anxious about a trifle, will not make a big fight because of some misunderstandings, and will not be lost because of a mistake.
like the great poet Su Shi's life, he was an official for several years, but he was repeatedly demoted, a generation.The ups and downs can be said to be ill-fated.
but in the face of difficulties, he is not arrogant and impatient, and has the heroic spirit of going to the east of the river.
in the face of gains and losses, he is not sad or happy, and has a misty rain of open-minded mind in his life.
in the face of ups and downs, he is not angry and discouraged, and he has the beautiful feelings of wishing people a long time and sharing thousands of miles together.
it is his leisurely state of mind that enables him to be carefree on the road of life in the wind and rain.
has always liked a sentence:
"people's life will inevitably have ups and downs, will not always be like the rising sun, nor will it always be miserable and down and out.
floating and sinking may be a kind of training for us.
therefore, when you float above, don't be proud; when you sink at the bottom, don't be pessimistic. "
I think so.
be neither arrogant nor impetuous, calm and calm, so as not to lose yourself in panic and worry about gain and loss in anxiety.
and this is also our most due attitude towards life.
persevere in order to accomplish the mission
one of the happiest things in the world is to make everything the way you want it to be through your own persistence and efforts.
as the saying goes, keep the clouds open and see the moon.
as long as you stick to it, life will meet with beauty in the end.
therefore, if you don't give up, don't throw in the towel, you win.
this is more appropriate for Luo Yonghao, the originator of Internet celebrities.
he has been successful and failed along the way, from being a teacher in New Oriental, to creating a hammer mobile phone, to being in huge debt, and to bringing goods to the live broadcast of Douyin.
but Luo Yonghao never gave up. He himself said, "people who never fail, only those who give up halfway."
if you fail, just get up; if the company owes hundreds of millions, I'll take it; if you laugh at me, I'll prove it to you.
it can be seen that people with a good state of mind always live in desperate situations; for those who know how to persist, there is no failure in the years.
this is the way life is. Keep your original heart and persevere, so that one day you can see the rest of the years when the prosperity comes to an end.
mindset, determine life; habit, change destiny.
as Maslow said:
"if your heart changes, your attitude changes; your attitude changes, your habits change; your habits change, your character changes; your life changes."
A good habit benefits people all their lives;
A good state of mind makes people meet beauty.
therefore, may you and I be calm and calm in this flashy world for the rest of our lives.