Every tolerance has an unexpected return in the future.
there is a saying:
"there is no cause or effect without reason, everything is doomed cause and effect."
whatever cause you sow, you get the result; what you do, you get in return.
the same is true of people getting along with others.
what you do to others, others will do to you.
everything you give to others will come back to you.
you respect others, others respect you
everyone yearns to be respected, but the premise of getting respect is that you respect others first.
as Descartes said, "only by respecting others can you be respected."
respect is always mutual.
if you respect others by one foot, they will respect you by one foot.
most of the time, respecting a person can not only maintain his self-esteem, but also warm his heart.
when a businessman was going out for a walk, he saw a scrawny young man by the roadside, setting up a stall to sell used books.
there are no guests at the booth, and young people are nibbling on moldy bread and looking around.
seeing this, the businessman felt pity, took out $8 from his pocket and stuffed it into the young man's hand, and walked away without looking back.
after walking not far, the businessman felt that there was something wrong with this, so he turned back.
he picked two books from the stall and said, "Sorry, I forgot my books. Remember that you are a businessman like me."
A few years later, businessmen need to talk about cooperation, so they attend a party and contact their partners.
but the businessman was less famous, and the partner at the party didn't want to talk to him at all.
in the middle, a young man in a suit came up to him, shook his hand and said, "Sir, do you remember me?"
the businessman recognized that the man in front of him was the young man who set up the stall.
it turns out that young people have become rich people of high prestige.
he thanked the businessman for what he said to him at that time and for his respect.
and this young man is the organizer of the party. He introduced the businessman to all the guests present.
because respect gives people dignity and protects their dignity.
people who know how to give respect to others are more likely to gain the respect of others.
Mencius said, "those who love others will always love them; those who respect others will always respect them."
if you respect others, only then will you respect you.
giving people and good, widely planting Futian
Hugo said, "A kind heart is the sun."
kindness can warm the heart.
in life, you will get something in return for what you do.
retribution is repeated for giving people and evil; giving people and good, widely planting Futian.
on the train, a couple went back to their hometown together, only to find a woman sitting in their seat.
the husband looked at it and motioned to his wife to sit next to the lady, but did not let the lady give way.
after sitting down, the wife found out that the lady was disabled without her left leg, so the husband gave up his seat to her.
it takes four hours to get to their hometown, and the husband didn't tell the lady that that was his position.
after arriving at the station, the wife felt sorry for her husband and said:
"it's a good deed to give way, but for such a long time, you can ask her to give it back to you halfway!"
later, my wife got pregnant and rushed back to her hometown to give birth, so the ticket service for her return home was tight and she couldn't get a ticket.
the couple can only bring their own bench back to their hometown.
when a young man saw it on the train, he immediately asked her to take her own seat, and his wife was very embarrassed.
the boy said, "it's all right. I'm strong enough to stand."
the wife took the boy's seat and said to her husband, "this is probably our blessing!"
as the old saying goes, "those who come out of love love to return, and those who come and go are blessed."
treat others with kindness, and others will return it with kindness; if you give blessings to others, you will also reap blessings.
people often say that the way of heaven is good for reincarnation.
those who are kind will be blessed, and those who do evil will be punished.
you just be kind, and blessings are on your way.
people owe you, God pays you back
being generous to others is not only a kind of self-cultivation, but also a kind of wisdom.
in life, to be kind to others is to be convenient when it is convenient, to forgive others and to forgive others.
"Cai Gentan" says: "it is a blessing to let one step be high and treat others with leniency."
to be generous to others is to accumulate blessings for yourself.
in the Ming Dynasty, there was a scholar named Wu Zitian. His mother died early, and his father married his stepmother.
the stepmother was very partial and was only kind to his brother and often beat and scolded Wu Zitian.
Wu Zitian was very resentful, but helpless.
after he got married, his stepmother was also very mean to his wife.
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then his father died, and the silver left behind was hidden by his stepmother.
the stepmother left the worst land for him and the best land for her brother.
Wu Zitian really couldn't stand it any longer. When he was going to talk to his stepmother, he was stopped by his wife.
later, the stepmother's son got caught up in gambling and lost all his money, his wife ran away, and the mother and son became beggars.
Wu Zitian felt happy, but his wife advised him that they were all his relatives anyway, and asked Wu Zitian to take them home.
this behavior moved the stepmother and brother, and the family was happy from then on, and the life became better and better.
his wife gave birth to three sons, all of whom were admitted to Jinshi, which caused a sensation in the city.
because at that time, it was a great honor for a family to give one Jinshi, let alone three.
it should be a blessing for their family, but how could they run away?
Xunzi said, "those who are good will be rewarded by heaven for good; those who are evil will be rewarded with evil."
if people deceive you, heaven will protect you; if people owe you, heaven will pay you back.
treat others with leniency, although it can not bring practical benefits to yourself, it can win the respect of others.
for every tolerance, there will be unexpected returns in the future.
Buddha said: "there is a cycle of cause and effect, and everything is rewarded. Everything you give to others will eventually return to yourself."
this is true.
on the way of life, when you face the people and things you encounter, if you treat them in different ways, you will have different results.
A person must exercise strict self-discipline if he wants to be respected, treated and lenient by others.
grow your own Fukuda, correct your behavior, and what you give will come back to you.